woken up at 6am by mum to go help at the convent dispensary for today’s initiation ceremony. spent my mid morning deep frying chicken & I had a long phone call with sanya. went back at midday to nap & to hang with my lil brother. had a light hearted phone call with faith about my adulting experience. napped a little. went back to the convent; I enjoyed the games more than the food. met willis. had spent the morning with his mother cooking. there was no cake. went back home & asked the brother I follow for my father’s cassette tapes. i found out last night that my mother gave them to him last week. it seems she’s finally letting go off the debris. my brother’s suitcase, was my fathers, and it had the tapes. dusted them off, & will go with them to my place when I leave home. intention is to convert to soft copy & archive them & also get to know my late father better. perhaps, I could come across a song or two that will make my or my mother’s heart ache. it’s been six years and a little more since.